Ethical non-monogamy seems to be everywhere these days. When I first started my private practice specializing in sex therapy in Connecticut more than ten years ago, I was one of the only therapists in the area working with polyamorous couples.
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“I’m worried my boyfriend is using an AI Intimate Partner!”
Unless you’ve been sleeping under a rock, you’ve noticed we’re living through an AI boom. Things aren’t changing by the day, they’re changing by the minute. Powerful, generative tools are now accessible to ordinary people, not just researchers or the
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The Early Messages We Get About Sex: Are They Blocking You From Better Sex?
Have you ever stopped to think about the messages you absorbed about sex when you were growing up? Whether those messages came from parents, teachers, friends, or even media like pornography, they leave a lasting imprint. These early influences shape
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Breaking the Stigma Around Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is more common than many people realize, yet it’s often a topic shrouded in shame and silence. If you’ve been struggling with ED, you’re not alone, and there is hope. At my practice, we offer a compassionate
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EMDR for Painful Sex
Painful Sex? If sex is one of the most natural things in our world, why is dealing with painful sex so common? I’m a Certified Sex Therapist and I talk with people every day about sex. For women or people
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The Importance of Being Seen in Relationships
It’s a common experience to feel like you’re not fully seen for who you truly are in a relationship, and it can be incredibly frustrating and lonely. This is especially true when it comes to being seen and loved for
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Sex Therapy for Low Libido
Low libido and low desire for sex can be a frustrating and distressing issue that affects many people at some point in their lives. It can lead to a lack of sexual satisfaction, low self-esteem and even relationship problems. Fortunately,
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When sex hurts…
For a society that seems obsessed with sex, there’s a lot we don’t know about it. If you’ve spent any time talking to me about sexuality, you’ll quickly learn my contradicting opinions about pornography. On one hand, it can be
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When Life Doesn’t Feel Sexy
It’s the end of 2020 and we are still in the midst of a global pandemic. While stress, uncertainty, and instability is a turn-on for some, it can cause a serious disinterest in sex for others. If you are finding
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Finding a Sex-Positive Therapist
Finding a therapist who is a good fit can be a challenge. This task becomes even harder when you’re seeking a therapist who is sex-positive. I was recently having a discussion about tips and tricks to find a sex-positive therapist
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